پیش بین های بی ثباتی ازدواج: بی آلایشی زوجین و راهبردهای حفظ رابطه

نوع مقاله: پژوهشی اصیل

نویسندگان

1 استادیار گروه روان‌شناسی، دانشگاه گنبد کاووس، گنبد کاووس، ایران.

2 دانش‌جوی دکتری مشاوره، دانشگاه آزاد واحد رودهن، رودهن، ایران.

چکیده

هدف پژوهش حاضر پیش بینی بی ثباتی ازدواج براساس بی آلایشی زوجین و راهبردهای حفظ رابطه در مردان و زنان متاهل، بود. پژوهش حاضر، یک پژوهش توصیفی _ همبستگی بود. جامعه آماری این پژوهش شامل کلیه معلمان متاهل شهر گنبد کاووس بودند که از بین آنها تعداد 170 نفر ( 70 مرد و 100زن)، به روش نمونه گیری تصادفی ساده انتخاب شدند. ابزار گرد آوری داده ها مقیاس بی ثباتی ازدواج، بی آلایشی زوجین و و راهبردهای حفظ رابطه، بود. برای تجزیه و تحلیل داده ها از روش همبستگی پیرسون و رگرسیون چند متغیری استفاده شد. نتایج تجزیه و تحلیل آماری نشان داد که بین بی آلایشی زوجین و راهبردهای حفظ رابطه به ترتیب با بی ثباتی ازدواج در گروه مردان (43/0- r=، 000/0P≤) و (42/0- r=، 000/0P≤) رابطه منفی معنادار و بین متغیرهای بی آلایشی زوجین و راهبردهای حفظ رابطه به ترتیب با بی ثباتی ازدواج در گروه زنان (52/0- r=، 000/0P≤) و (57/0- r=، 000/0P≤) رابطه منفی معنادار وجود دارد. همچنین متغیرهای بی آلایشی زوجین و راهبردهای حفظ رابطه در گروه مردان و زنان به ترتیب 22% و 36% واریانس بی ثباتی ازدواج را تبیین کردند. براساس این یافته ها می توان نتیجه گرفت که بی آلایشی زوجین و راهبردهای حفظ رابطه نقش موثری در ثبات ازدواج دارند.

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