بررسی رابطه‌ی دلبستگی به خدا، مقدس دانستن ازدواج و صمیمیت معنوی با کیفیت زناشویی

نوع مقاله : مقاله کاربردی

نویسندگان

1 هیات علمی

2 دانشجوی سابق

3 عضو هیات علمی دانشگاه شهید چمران

چکیده

مسائل مربوط به ازدواج مدام توسط محققان به منظور ایجاد و بهبود کیفیت آن مورد بررسی قرار می‌گیرند. کیفیت زناشویی یکی از متغیرهای مهم ازدواج است و دوام آن را پیش­بینی می­کند. پژوهش حاضر با هدف بررسی رابطه­ بین سبک­های دلبستگی به خدا، مقدس دانستن ازدواج و صمیمیت معنوی با کیفیت زناشویی در دانشجویان زن متاهل دانشگاه شهیدچمران اهواز انجام شد. 192 دانشجوی زن متاهل به روش نمونه­گیری داوطلب انتخاب شدند، و پرسشنامه­های دلبستگی به خدا، مقدس دانستن ازدواج،  صمیمیت معنوی و شاخص کیفیت زناشویی را تکمیل نمودند. روش­های آماری ضریب همبستگی پیرسون و رگرسیون چندمتغیری با استفاده از نرم افزار 21-SPSS تحلیل شدند. یافته­ها نشان داد که بین سبک‌های دلبستگی اجتنابی و اضطرابی به خدا با کیفیت زناشویی رابطه­ منفی و بین مقدس دانستن ازدواج و صمیمیت معنوی با کیفیت زناشویی رابطه­ مثبت وجود دارد. همچنین تحلیل رگرسیون نشان داد متغیرهای مقدس دانستن ازدواج، صمیمیت، دلبستگی‌های اجتنابی و اضطرابی به خدا پیش­بین­های معنادار کیفیت زناشویی هستند (32% واریانس). بر این اساس می­توان چنین نتیجه­گیری کرد که دلبستگی ناایمن به خداوند، مقدس دانستن ازدواج و صمیمیت معنوی می­توانند بر کیفیت زناشویی تأثیرگذار باشند.
 
 

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عنوان مقاله [English]

The relationship between attachment to God, sanctification of marriage and spiritual intimacy with marital quality

چکیده [English]

Issues of marriage are continuously investigated by researchers in order to create and improve the quality of marriage. Marital quality is one important marriage variable which predicts durability of marriage. This study aimed to investigate the relationship between attachment styles to God, sanctification of marriage and spiritual intimacy with marital quality in married women among Shahid Chamran University of Ahvaz students. The sample included 192 subjects selected by voluntary sampling method. The participants completed four questionnaires Attachment to God Inventory (AGI), Sacred Marriage Inventory, Spiritual Intimacy Inventory, and Quality of Marriage Index. The data were analyzed using Pearson correlation coefficients, and multiple regression method. The results showed that attachment styles to God indicated negative correlation with quality of marriage. The sanctification of marriage and spiritual intimacy indicated positive relationship with quality of marriage. The result of multiple regression showed multiple correlation coefficients between predictive and criterion variables and this variables predicted 32% of  quality of marriage variance. It is concluded that insecure attachment to God, sanctification of marriage and spiritual intimacy may affect marital quality.
 
 

کلیدواژه‌ها [English]

  • Keywords: attachment styles to God
  • sanctification of marriage
  • spiritual intimacy
  • Marital quality
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