ارزیابی مدل رابطه‌ی عذرخواهی و کیفّیت روابط زناشویی با میانجی‌گری همدلی زناشویی و بخشش عاطفی

نوع مقاله : مقاله کاربردی

نویسنده

استادیار گروه مشاوره دانشگاه شهرکرد

10.22055/jac.2021.36352.1784

چکیده

پژوهش حاضر با هدف ارزیابی مدل رابطه­ی عذرخواهی و کیفّیت روابط زناشویی با میانجی­گری همدلی زناشویی و بخشش عاطفی در یک طرح هم­بستگی از نوع مدل­یابی معادلات ساختاری انجام گرفت. 231 زن و مرد متأهل از میان کلیه­ی زنان و مردان متأهل شهر شهرکرد به روش نمونه­گیری تصادفی چندمرحله‌ای و بر اساس ملاک­های ورود و خروج از نواحی دو­گانه­ی شهرداری این شهرستان انتخاب شدند و به پرسش­نامه­ی کیفّیت روابط زناشویی (QMI)، مقیاس بخشش عاطفی (EFS)، پرسش­نامه­ی صفات همدلی باتسون (BEA) و مقیاس مؤلفّه­های عذرخواهی (ACS) پاسخ دادند. داده­ها به روش­های آماری ضریب هم­بستگی پیرسون و تحلیل معادلات ساختاری و نرم‌افزارهای SPSS-23 و AMOS تحلیل شدند. نتایج نشان داد که مدل ساختاری ارزیابی شده از شاحض­های برازندگی خوبی برخوردار است و متغیر عذرخواهی به صورت مستقیم و غیرمستقیم با نقش واسطه­ای بخشش عاطفی و همدلی زناشویی بر کیفّیت روابط زناشویی تأثیر دارد. بر اساس یافته­های این پژوهش می­توان نتیجه گرفت عذرخواهی نقش عمده­ای در کیفّیت روابط زناشویی به واسطه­ی بخشش عاطفی و همدلی زناشویی دارد.
 

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